Eating out in restaurants and cafés in France
Au restaurant
Book, choose the set menu, know that service is included, ask for a free carafe of water and mention your allergies and halal needs.
Overview
Eating in France has a big social and cultural status, and the French meal (repas gastronomique) is an intangible heritage for UNESCO. Places vary: the restaurant is finer and with full service, the brasserie a wide restaurant with a long menu and continuous service, the bistrot smaller and friendlier with traditional dishes, the café for coffee, drinks and sandwiches, the crêperie for pancakes (crêpes and galettes), the boulangerie for bread, sandwiches (sandwich jambon-beurre) and pastries (viennoiseries), the fast-food and the restaurant du midi.
The meal has an order and etiquette: greeting Bonjour, ordering, successive dishes and the bill. And restaurants offer a menu or formule at a fixed price for several dishes. This guide explains types of places and meal times, how to order and pay, service and tipping, cafés and bars, allergies and halal, table manners, and booking.
Types of places and meal times
Lunch (déjeuner) is between twelve and two in the afternoon, and dinner (dîner) between half past seven and ten in the evening, and many restaurants close between lunch and dinner and one or two days a week (often Sunday and Monday) and days in summer.
- Brasseries and many cafés offer continuous service.
- Breakfast (petit-déjeuner) is light: coffee, croissant and bread with butter and jam, often in the café or at home.
- And the goûter is a snack for children in the afternoon.
- And the apéritif (apéro) is a drink and light foods before dinner at home or in a café (from six).
- And food is not served much before the usual time.
- Look for a restaurant du jour at a low price, and a fixed formule midi.
- And terraces open in good weather.
- And in tourist areas the cost is higher and quality often lower, so move a little away from the landmarks.
How to order and what the menu is
On entering greet Bonjour and the waiter will guide you to a table (or ask for one).
- You are given the carte, the menu, and you may find a menu or formule: entrée + plat or plat + dessert or all three at a fixed price cheaper than ordering individually, and there is a plat du jour, dish of the day.
- The order: apéritif then entrée (starter) then plat principal (main course) with a garniture (starches) then fromage (cheese) and before dessert (sweet) then café (coffee) and from it a digestif.
- Ordering all is not required, and you may be content with one dish.
- Bon appétit is a greeting before eating.
- Ask for une carafe d'eau, a jug of tap water, which is free by law, instead of paid bottled water (eau minérale).
- And bringing back leftover food in a gourmet bag is allowed since 2021.
- And coffee: un café means a small espresso, and un crème with milk.
The bill, service and tipping
You ask for the bill by saying L'addition, s'il vous plaît and the waiter does not bring it of his own accord because that is considered rushing.
- Prices displayed in the menu are service compris, that is include the service charge (15 percent) and tax, by law, so it is not added.
- So the tip (pourboire) is optional and not necessarily expected: leaving a few euros or rounding up for excellent service is enough (about 5 to 10 percent for satisfaction), and it is not required in a café (a few cents are sometimes left).
- Payment by card, contactless and with titres-restaurant (meal vouchers) that the employer gives and sets their use is available.
- And bills are split, partager l'addition.
- And the restaurant must display prices outside and give you a note (receipt) on request.
- And in tourist places beware of an addition salée (an inflated bill) and check the bill, and if you complain speak to the manager then SignalConso.
Cafés, bars and etiquette
The café is a social institution: people sit for hours over a cup of coffee reading and talking, and prices differ by place: at the comptoir (the counter standing) cheaper, in the salle (inside) higher, and on the terrasse (outside) the highest.
- Coffee (about 1.5 to 3 euros) and drinks are paid when ordered or on leaving.
- Among etiquette: greet the staff Bonjour on entering and Au revoir and Merci on leaving, and do not call the waiter loudly but raise your hand or say Monsieur/Madame, s'il vous plaît, and speak calmly.
- At the table the hands stay visible (not under the table) and elbows are not placed, and the bread is put on the table (not on the plate) and used to wipe the sauce, and do not cut the salad with the knife.
- Cheese is eaten before dessert.
- And serious jokes about food are not considered acceptable, since discussion about food is part of the culture.
- And cigarettes are banned inside enclosed places.
Allergies, halal, vegetarian and booking
The law obliges restaurants to inform customers of fourteen major allergens (gluten, milk, eggs, nuts, peanuts, fish, crustaceans, sesame, mustard, soy, celery and others) on the menu or on request, so tell the waiter before ordering: Je suis allergique à….
- Halal food is available in Islamic restaurants, grills (kebabs), Arab and Turkish restaurants and many fast foods, and in ordinary French restaurants ask about meats and ingredients: Ce plat contient du porc ou de l'alcool ?, since some sauces contain wine (au vin) or alcohol, and soup lardons, and gelatine in desserts.
- And vegetarian (végétarien) and vegan (végan) options are widening.
- For booking (réserver) call or use TheFork or the restaurant's site, especially for evenings and weekends, and tell them the number of people, time and allergies.
- Attend on time and inform of delay or cancellation.
- And a guarantee card is sometimes requested.
Step by step
- 1
Choose a suitable place: a boulangerie for breakfast and a brasserie for lunch.
- 2
Book for evenings and weekends.
- 3
Tell the waiter about allergies or halal before ordering.
- 4
Ask for a formule and a carafe d'eau.
- 5
Ask for the bill and split it if needed.
- 6
Leave an optional tip if you liked the service.
Documents checklist
- Payment card or cash.
- Titres-restaurant if any.
- The booking confirmation.
- Your allergy list.
- The receipt.
Key vocabulary
- lerestaurant
- leserveurwaiter
- l'additionbill
- lepourboiretip
- l'entréestarter
- leplatmain course
- ledessert
- laréservationreservation
- lacarafe d'eaucarafe of water
- l'allergieallergy
- lemenuset menu
Useful phrases
- Une table pour deux, s'il vous plaît.A table for two, please.
- Pouvez-vous nous apporter la carte, s'il vous plaît ?Can you bring us the menu, please?
- Une carafe d'eau, s'il vous plaît.A carafe of water, please.
- Je suis allergique aux noix.I am allergic to nuts.
- Est-ce que ce plat est halal ?Is this dish halal?
- L'addition, s'il vous plaît.The bill, please.
In a brasserie
Serveur
Bonsoir. Vous avez réservé ?Good evening. Have you booked?Vous
Oui, une table pour quatre au nom d'Ahmed.Yes, a table for four in the name of Ahmed.Serveur
Par ici, s'il vous plaît. Vous désirez boire quelque chose ?This way, please. Would you like something to drink?Vous
Une carafe d'eau, s'il vous plaît. Le poulet est-il halal ?A carafe of water, please. Is the chicken halal?Serveur
Oui, tout notre poulet est halal.Yes, all our chicken is halal.Vous
Parfait. Nous en prenons quatre.Perfect. We will take four.
Common mistakes
- Not greeting on entering.
- Ordering bottled water instead of a free carafe.
- Leaving a big tip as if service were not included.
- Not asking about wine or pork in the dish.
Cultural tips
- Try the lunch formule for lower prices.
- Ask about the plat du jour since it is often fresh.
- Move away from tourist sites to eat at a better price.
- Book a table a day earlier in tourist cities.
Official links
Check yourself
Question 1 of 5
Is service included in prices?