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At the restaurant, the bar and the trattoria

Al ristorante, al bar e in trattoria

The meal has several courses, the coperto is normal, the tip is not obligatory and coffee is drunk standing at the bar.

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Overview

Eating in Italy is a basic part of social life, and has its own etiquette and order. The traditional meal consists of several courses: antipasto (starters), then primo (starches such as pasta, risotto or soup), then secondo (meat or fish) with contorno (side vegetables), then dolce (dessert) and caffè.

You are not required to order all the courses, and a primo alone or a secondo is enough. And there are many types of restaurants: ristorante is more formal, trattoria and osteria family-run and cheaper, pizzeria for pizza, and bar for coffee, breakfast and sandwiches. Restaurants usually open for lunch from one to three and for dinner from half past seven or eight. This guide explains types of places, the order of ordering, coffee and the bar, payment, the coperto and tipping, halal and allergies, and booking and table manners.

1

Types of places and meal times

The bar in Italy differs from the pub in other countries: a café serving coffee and the cornetto at breakfast time and sandwiches (panini and tramezzini) and drinks, and everyone goes there from morning to evening.

  • The restaurant (ristorante) is smart, and the trattoria and the osteria serve home dishes at reasonable prices, and the pizzeria usually opens in the evening and serves round thin pizza from the oven.
  • A tavola calda serves ready fast dishes.
  • Meals start late compared with other countries: lunch around one and dinner after eight, and you may find restaurants closed between three and seven.
  • And most restaurants close one day a week (giorno di chiusura) and most close in August.
  • And there are gelaterie for ice cream.
2

The order of ordering and the courses

After sitting down the waiter brings the food menu and the drinks list, and asks about the water, naturale or frizzante, that is still or sparkling, which is usually paid for.

  • Then you order the starters if you wish, and after that the primo and the secondo.
  • It is allowed to share dishes and to order a half portion sometimes.
  • Dessert and coffee are ordered at the end, and coffee is not ordered with the meal but after it, and a cappuccino at noon or evening is considered odd in Italy, since it is for the morning.
  • Grated cheese is not asked for on seafood pasta.
  • And many restaurants offer a menu turistico or menu del giorno at a fixed price for several courses, which is economical.
  • And do not be shy to ask the waiter for a recommendation (Cosa consiglia?).
3

Coffee and the bar

Coffee in Italy is a daily ritual.

  • Caffè means the small espresso, and is drunk quickly standing at the high counter (al banco) at a low price (about one euro), whereas sitting at a table raises the price several times.
  • Types include macchiato (with a little milk), cappuccino, caffè latte, ristretto, lungo and corretto (with a little alcohol, so avoid it if you do not drink).
  • In many places you first pay at the till and get a receipt then present it to the barista behind the bar.
  • And a glass of water often accompanies the coffee.
  • And the aperitivo in the evening (from about six to nine) is a drink with light foods, and you can ask for a non-alcoholic drink (analcolico), juice or a spritz analcolico.
  • And coffee after the meal usually ends lunch.
4

Payment, the coperto and tipping

At the restaurant you ask for the bill by saying Il conto, per favore, and the waiter does not bring it of his own accord, since that is considered rushing.

  • The bill often includes the coperto, that is a fixed charge per person (from one to three euros) for sitting, bread and cutlery, and it must appear in the menu, and it is legal, but servizio, that is service, may also be added in some tourist places and must be announced.
  • Tipping is not obligatory and not expected: leaving a few euros on a big meal or rounding up the amount if the service was good is enough.
  • And most restaurants accept cards, and some small places cash only, so ask before sitting.
  • And bills are split by saying alla romana, that is each according to his order.
  • And keep the fiscal receipt.
5

Halal, allergies, booking and table manners

There are not many halal restaurants outside big cities, but there are Arab, Turkish, Indian and Pakistani restaurants, and in Italian restaurants you can ask for dishes without pork: many pasta dishes with vegetables, fish and cheese are suitable.

  • Ask the waiter about ingredients because carbonara and amatriciana contain cured pork, and some sauces contain alcohol.
  • Tell the waiter of any allergy (allergia) or intolerance, since the law obliges restaurants to declare the fourteen allergens.
  • Book in the evening and at weekends (prenotare).
  • Manners include: do not put cheese on fish, do not cut pasta, wait for your companions before starting, use a fork and spoon for pasta, and do not raise your voice.
  • And saying Buon appetito is customary.

Step by step

  1. 1

    Choose a suitable place: a bar for breakfast and a trattoria for lunch.

  2. 2

    Book for the evening and weekend.

  3. 3

    Tell the waiter about allergies or halal needs.

  4. 4

    Order what suits you and not all courses are required.

  5. 5

    Ask for the bill and read the coperto charge.

  6. 6

    Leave an optional tip if you liked the service.

Documents checklist

  • Payment card or cash.
  • Confirmed booking by phone or app.
  • An allergy statement if applicable.
  • The fiscal receipt.
  • Meal vouchers (buoni pasto) if your work gives them.

Key vocabulary

  • ilristorante
    restaurant
  • ilcameriere
    waiter
  • ilconto
    bill
  • ilcoperto
    cover charge
  • lamancia
    tip
  • ilprimo
    first course
  • ilsecondo
    main course
  • ildolce
    dessert
  • laprenotazione
    reservation
  • l'allergia
    allergy
  • l'acqua naturale
    still water

Useful phrases

  • Vorrei prenotare un tavolo per due.I would like to book a table for two.
  • Cosa consiglia?What do you recommend?
  • Sono allergico alle noci.I am allergic to nuts.
  • Questo piatto contiene carne di maiale?Does this dish contain pork?
  • Il conto, per favore.The bill, please.
  • Un caffè al banco, per favore.A coffee at the bar, please.

In the trattoria

  • Cameriere

    Buonasera. Avete prenotato?Good evening. Have you booked?
  • Tu

    Buonasera. Sì, un tavolo per due a nome Rossi.Good evening. Yes, a table for two under the name Rossi.
  • Cameriere

    Prego, accomodatevi. Acqua naturale o frizzante?Please, take a seat. Still or sparkling water?
  • Tu

    Naturale, grazie. Questo primo contiene carne di maiale?Still, thank you. Does this first course contain pork?
  • Cameriere

    No, è solo con verdure. Ve lo consiglio.No, only with vegetables. I recommend it.
  • Tu

    Perfetto. Lo prendo. Grazie.Perfect. I will take it. Thank you.

Common mistakes

  • Ordering a cappuccino after lunch or dinner.
  • Sitting in the bar without knowing the price rises.
  • Leaving a big tip as in other countries.
  • Not asking about alcohol or pork in the dish.

Cultural tips

  • Drink coffee standing at the bar to save money.
  • Try the menu del giorno for an economical lunch.
  • Ask about the dishes of the day since they are often fresh.
  • Book a table a day earlier in tourist cities.

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